What have you learned while growing up about being male or female?

Well as a female I have learned that it's really hard. We go through mood swings and all these other things. While men only change their voice. Why is it that women have t go through all the pain, while men sit on the side lines? Back then men and women were treated in some places they still are and I guess we just have to live with the fact that "we make men think they are in charge, but we are really in charge."